FAQ
Adding another Jabber user into your Roster (contact list) is simple. Start by pressing the New User button in your Roster window. xxx
You need to know the other users, so called, Jabber user id (Jid). It has the same form as an email address. You may also enter a nick name, or/and create a group for this user in the roster. Users are added by a mutual subscription mechanism. You start by subscribing to another user, which we are going to do here, and the other user accepts or denies your subscription, and usually you'll get a subscription request from the other user that you accept or denies.

Press the Add button.

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When this subscription is sent off, and before the other user has answered, it is placed in the Subscription Pending section in the Roster. ccc
If the other user is friendly enough to subscribe to your presence as well, you'll get a request like this. Just press the Accept button. subscription request
The final state is shown here. The user you have added is either Online or Offline. dd